Contents: The human feelings face that we usually speak of the acquaintance's cost, mainly mean the operation between the acquaintance.Private enterprise a lot of leaderships always have a felling:The acquaintance is many to handle affairs so much, use acquaintance, use an acquaintance credibility.I calculated for a while, under the market economy environment use an acquaintance actually is not the matter that can make money either, contrary may bring you the excesssive expenditure of much cost.Raise an example.You drove to violate the rules and ran the red light, was blocked by the police, once you see that police is an acquaintance, and he says to you:Eldest brother,cheap sun glasses you how here!You say:Just didn't see red-light execuse me, beat a doze son.The other party says:Have no matter son, past.By this time your meeting how?You will feel a face.Why?Other people's running the red light a meeting is blocked a punishment by the police, while this police be the other people's noodles to take care of you call eldest brother.You had a face again, and then saved 200 dollars to fine money, you today very happy.Then you say:The brothers has no matter son and another day and together has rice.He says:Go.Passing by here for the second time not is to run the red light, but turns wrong bend, on seeing and being this elder brothers son, this time didn't apologize, you said:Again is that are you on duty?The other party asks:The business is quite good, pays recently!You say:Go, another day drink!Saved 200 dollars again, you would seek reason to invite him to have a meal, return this person's feeling.Heel police's the elder brothers son an eat a to drink a happy, the cost affirms more than 200 dollars.After finishing eating, you asked more 1:Is the sister-in-law what's the hurry recently?The police says:Your this sister-in-law doesn't fight to excel and has no matter son at home for a day and seek a work specially difficult.Want to be not ascend you seek to live son stem there, can open some money to open some money, don't make her stay at home.You say:Is all right, the business son of the elder brothers son.Led the son of police daughter-in-law to go to work for two days, at least monthly 1000 dollars, also need to buy insurance, plus other miscellaneous, just about 2,000 dollars.Go to work for three months after, police's brothers was made a phone call and said:Eldest brother, you that company Zha tube of, so disorderly!Daughter-in-law comes back to say with me every day, you like a tube to take care of your under charge, not the ability is old to humiliate my daughter-in-law, she is to don't go to university, don't go to university is also a person.You go to work on the second day, have to the political reform son make people all know that her husband and you are the elder brothers sons.Our company even once appears a circumstance like this:An acquaintance's wife arrives company to go to work and ran with other people afterwards.Result this acquaintance's husband makes a phone call, query say why put daughter-in-law be still seduced to walk here.BE as exactly the same as police's daughter-in-law's example, maintain to relate to with this friend's face, will promise that the person that they entrust is happy and peace, but the whichever link is wrong at any time, face have no, the person's relation returns zero and returns to a stranger relation, do you see worthwhile and not worth the cost?The acquaintance can usually satisfy the vanity of your a short moment, but will cause you otiose association, spend time and energy, cause you again at the same time excesssive cost expenditure.Is sometimes the cost that the face pays, you don't know and only have be you heel police's brothers bye of time, you just know, for the sake of 200 dollars at that time, in the center took to pull a leathern matter so more, and the sister-in-law came hereafter let company the inner part relate to more complicated.A lot of cases prove that acquaintance's relation is to outstrip system and break institutional.So the private enterprise acquaintance uses more much, more believe internal acquaintance's relation, system cost more high, and the system wills be injured and even basically has no way establishment system civilization.I once let supervisor will exclusively to company internal system performance the circumstance once did a metered research, exclusively research which systems be carried out, which systems be not carried out, afterwards detection's carrying out the least good is to submit an expense account system,cheap sunglasses probably carried out 40%, because submit an expense account is an acquaintance to sign for acquaintance, no one hard pit ticket, all basically label.Is a more familiar person more not say label not, too familiar because of relating to.Carrying out the best is to invest system, because the investment is a board of directors to settle, all of board of directorses are strangers, with manager the nothing important associates at ordinary times, concerning investment must board of directors approval, performance rate is a hundred per cent.Therefore, we mostly pass to hunt a company and on-line job advertisement now, company current acquaintance already decline is all that the stranger is just good for not arriving 10%, this hasing been very little in the private enterprise, however according to my ideal shoulding be an all don'ting , .(Once in a very long while excerpt from 《miscellaneous text monthly publication 》 in 2009 the 1st diagram/Xin, a Chinese family name is just)
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